Now, i understand chunteck's feeling.
There are differences of status but the involvement of the situations are almost similar. And, i totally get back what i had done. Can this consider a little karma. Hahaha. Who is me and so attract another type of myself. So funny but scary. But, i hope chunteck won't feel the same on me?🙏
This is an incident of a blogger's reader, who have followed this blog. And, i not sure what identity is this reader using. And, unfortunately or fortunately, he is friend of me. I can say i wouldn't search for his help even how tough the situation is just because of not coming through my mind. And, what for i looking for him since there are friends i feel comfortable with.
Shocking me is that he is too busy body (not sure is this word right or wrong). He went to keep sms-ing, WhatsApp, fb msg by adding in a group and spreading this blog of me to my best friends, saying that i am in need of concerns. What bother me is that: blogging is like a note of myself to me and readers about my thoughts and feelings to share. Wishing that i get some positive outcomes of motivation or philosophy views. But what this guy's doings are totally bothering me. Imagine, your blogger's reader search for your friends among them and those friends so suddenly get alerted with my everything, sounding like i am in trouble needs of concerns. Oh my god, this is totally infringing my privacy. I just keep silence because i just don't want to repeat the straightforward-ness that i would have done in the past. I would get mad of it in the past by getting angry and spoil the relationship just to get what i wanna voice out. But, i just wanna improve from my mistakes. So, i just ignore and make a silence block and walk away from it as to respect myself follow to chunteck's style. Plus, to me, this fellow is weirdo to me.
What i did, i get back. Hahaha.
This fellow's doings are almost what i did to my chunteck. And, i understand why he feels so bothering now. Because the person dont get the other's need. Hahaha.
Taught of lesson from my incident: Chunteck needs the space from me.
But, what i need is, i am totally don't need this reader's listening or focus on me. This sounds not a manner of me or rude. But, i guess everyone has their comfortable zones to stay where they should be.
F. O. S, i am awaken by this strange sms and writing this page. But, this person is annoying and just don't understand about people's needs. Sorry to say this: F. O. S, don't try to test my limit of border line.
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